Hello friend!
Quick question: have you ever had a fantasy you meant to talk about… and then it turned into a vague “we should do that sometime” and quietly died?
Same. It’s so common. And it’s usually not about confidence. It’s about not having a next sentence.
So I’m offering a free workshop to help with that.
The heart of it is what I call the Erotic Huddle. It’s the series of conversations that happen before the scene that make role play feel easy instead of awkward. You’ll learn how to go from “I have an idea…” to “cool, when are we doing this?” without turning it into a weird negotiation or a high-pressure moment.
We’ll practice:
- the three phrases that keep things moving (Yes, and / Yes, if / Not that, but)
- how to make planning feel like foreplay (especially over text)
- the power of the "pause and recalibrate"
- how to lean into curiosity and not make assumptions
Also, Canadian Daddy (my boyfriend Nick) is going to pop in for a guest appearance, because it’s genuinely helpful to hear what this sounds like from the partner side.
If you want in, here you go:
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$10.00
Yes, And: The Art of Building Shared Fantasies (replay)
Most people don’t struggle with fantasies. They struggle with saying them.
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If you can’t make it live, register anyway and I’ll send the replay on Thursday.
Yours in Pleasure,
Ashley Manta
Certified Sexologist + Relationship Coach
PS: If role play has felt cringey, intimidating, or like too much pressure, you’re exactly who this is for. My method will make a difference.
