Hello you,
I've had some time to do some self-reflective work now that I am cozy and settled in my new space in Austin. I want to tell you about a part of me I’ve been connecting with lately—the part that’s scared to be messy in relationships.
Not messy like forgetting to do the dishes.
Messy like crying without knowing why.
Like asking for reassurance more than once.
Like not having the perfect words for what I’m feeling and needing space before I can show up well.
This part of me learned early that if I wasn’t polished and composed, I might be left. So she worked so hard to keep everything together. But lately, she’s been tired.
I wrote her a love letter.
And I turned it into a Substack post.
You can read when it goes live tomorrow morning. Subscribe to my Substack and have it sent right to your inbox:
👉 Loving the Part of Me That’s Scared to Be Messy
If you have a part like this too—one that’s trying to protect you by keeping you small, quiet, or “together”—this post is for you.
✨ Cosmic Orgasm – A Space to Honor Your Full Self
If this resonates and you’re craving a space where your full self is welcome—where your sensuality, your power, your shadows, and your desires can all be held—I’d love to invite you into my women’s group: Attuning to the Cosmic Orgasm.
It’s a self-paced course + community for women who are ready to do the deep, embodied work of healing and liberation. We don’t just talk about orgasms—we talk about everything that gets in the way of feeling truly alive and worthy of joy.
You can learn more here:
👉 All about the Cosmic Orgasm 90 Day group
 |
$555.55 $444.55
Attuning to the Cosmic Orgasm
Unlock Your Pleasure. Unleash Your Power.
You deserve a sexual experience that transcends the ordinary. Attuning to the... Read more |
💗 Private Coaching Is Open
I also have space for a few private coaching clients. If you’re ready for more personalized support in your relationships, pleasure, emotional healing, or self-trust—I’d love to support you.
Just hit reply or head to my calendar to book a discovery call:
👉 Work with me one-on-one
Thank you for being here.
Thank you for walking this path with me.
And thank you for letting me share the messy, magical parts of my journey with you.
You are not too much.
You never were.
With love,
Ashley