Hello you deliciously complicated human,
Every November the internet dares you to go 30 days without orgasm. Cute meme. Terrible sex education.
I recently published a new Substack post unpacking “No Nut November”...why it’s rooted in sexual shame, what it gets wrong about pleasure, and what to do instead. It’s part science, part sass, and 100% permission to enjoy your body.
Read it here: Keep the Nuts, Lose the Shame
Coming up next week: Meeting Your Body Where It Is (on Zoom)
Wednesday, November 19 at 6 PM Pacific
This Zoom workshop is all about tuning into your body’s signals, slowing down, and reconnecting to pleasure at your own pace. Perfect if you’ve been feeling disconnected, tense, or just ready to feel more again.
You’ll leave with practical tools for presence, a few gentle movement rituals, and somatic techniques to help you drop back into your body (instead of living in your head).
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Catch the replay collection
If you can’t make it live, you can still learn at your own pace. Here are some of my favorites from my replay library:
Someone earlier today asked if I had a list of all the classes I've taught in the last few years and it turns out there are A LOT of them! (And this isn't even all of them). Who knew?
Finally, on a personal note, you may or may not have heard (if you follow me on IG) but yesterday was Canadian Daddy's and my three year anniversary. We'll celebrate it properly in person, but even remotely we shared a lot of appreciation, giggles, and sexiness via FaceTime and texts. I'm deeply grateful to be doing life with him and I can't wait for you all to meet him (if you haven't already! Here's a picture of Nick and I being cute on the ship while we were docked in Naples:
I know it's only halfway through November and it already feels like midnight by 6pm, but hopefully some of this juicy knowledge will keep you warm on these brisk autumn evenings.
Yours in pleasure,
Ashley
