Please note: This is a replay video of a Zoom workshop from December 2025.
If you and your partner have ever had a great idea, flirted about it for a minute, and then watched it disappear into the Bermuda Triangle of “sometime,” this workshop is for you.
Nick (Canadian Daddy) and I teach you how we actually take a fantasy from inspiration to follow-through without it turning into an awkward, tense negotiation. You’ll learn how to share a desire so it feels inviting, how to check capacity in real time (energy, stress, bandwidth, jealousy, nerves, all of it), and how to keep it collaborative so one person isn’t always “driving” while the other is trying to keep up.
We’ll walk you through the Pre-Talk, which is a simple sequence that helps you move from:
“I have a fantasy…” to “here’s the vibe,” “here’s what I’m asking for,” “here’s what stays fantasy-only,” and “here’s when we’re actually doing it.”
You’ll also get the phrases that make hard conversations feel way less heavy:
Yes, and
Yes, if
Not that, but
They’re great for building on an idea, naming conditions, and pivoting when something stops feeling good without anyone spiraling into rejection or defensiveness.
Nick pops in throughout the class so you can hear what this sounds like from the partner side, not just from me teaching it.
If you want fantasy and role play that feel doable in real life, and you’re tired of vague talk that never becomes anything, you’ll finish this with a clear way to talk, plan, adjust, and actually have the sex you’ve been hinting at.