Intimacy and Relationship Education

Hello Reader, I just got home from 11 glorious days in Cabo and I feel amazing. ...Except for the fact that I came back with Covid. Bummer. Don't worry, it's mild and I'm taking care of myself. And the good news is, my offering tomorrow will not be impacted because it's online! Yay! In case you missed it, I'm hosting a movie night on Zoom tomorrow night, Wednesday 5/22, where we'll all get together and watch my "Secrets of Life Changing Hand Jobs" workshop from January and you'll get some...

Hello you, I've had some time to do some self-reflective work now that I am cozy and settled in my new space in Austin. I want to tell you about a part of me I’ve been connecting with lately—the part that’s scared to be messy in relationships. Not messy like forgetting to do the dishes. Messy like crying without knowing why. Like asking for reassurance more than once. Like not having the perfect words for what I’m feeling and needing space before I can show up well. This part of me learned...

Hello Reader, Happy Masturbation May! If you're not familiar with the origins of Masturbation May, let me give you a quick history lesson. In 1994, Dr. Joycelyn Elders, the first Black woman to ever become Surgeon General, was fired by the Clinton administration for daring to suggest that teaching school age children that masturbation was a healthy and normal activity would have a positive public health impact if information about it was included in sex education curriculum. Good Vibrations,...

Hello you! As you know, 4/20 is the biggest cannabis holiday of the year. But there's another day this week that's also really important--Bicycle Day on 4/19. For those unfamiliar, Bicycle Day celebrates chemist Albert Hofmann and his important work. He first synthesized LSD (acid) in 1938 and after 5 years on the shelf collecting dust, on April 19th 1943 he accidentally gave himself a tiny dose. He quickly learned that that tiny dose (250 micrograms) was actually enough to induce a full...